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“Amrita”
…meaning nectar of the goddess. A liquid most treasured and
revered in ancient Tantric literature. What exactly does it
mean? Even modern medicine isn’t exactly sure, much less in
agreement. There is a good deal of mythology surrounding the
biological reality of what has been only recently termed as
“female ejaculation”.
The
primary source of much erroneous information about the nature of
female ejaculation seems to be attributable to those who seek to
sensationalize and exploit this relatively unexplored
phenomenon, while others have been overly gullible in accepting
purely anecdotal evidence.
It's
widely believed that there is a female counterpart to the male
prostate; technically known as “Skene’s” glands. Just as
the male prostate, the ducts from these glands empty into the
urethral canal. The liquid produced by the Skene’s
glands is not urine, but a thin clear fluid containing glucose
and prostatic acid. This chemical makeup is much more similar to
semen (without sperm), than it is to urine.
During
sexual arousal the Skene’s glands may be stimulated in
a way as to release secretions into the urethral canal. These
secretions are ultimately expelled through the urethral opening
(just as in male ejaculation). This fluid "release" is
entirely unrelated to “vaginal” secretions, who’s primary,
but not exclusive purpose is the lubrication of the vagina.
While
there have been numerous claims of vast quantities of liquid
expelled during ejaculation, all fail to offer a biologically
compelling explanation as to the source, or reservoir used to
store or produce such copious supplies of juices. Skene’s glands
are smaller in size than the male prostate, and it would only
seem logical to assume that the amount of “ejaculate” would
be commensurate. Regardless of the true quantity, it is a fact,
that it is possible for some women to expel (or ejaculate)
prostatic fluid.
Where
is this mysterious gland?
The Skene’s
gland is embedded in the wall of the urethra, and can be
indirectly felt through the upper vaginal wall, 2- 3” from the
entrance of the vagina.
 Using
the pads of one or more fingers, it can best be identified as
area of ridges. The center of this ridged surface, about the
size of a dime to half dollar, is known as the Graffenberg spot
or G-spot. In some women this may be more noticeable than
others, particularly when in an un-aroused state. During arousal
the G-spot (which is made of erectile tissue) fills with blood
and swells to 2-3 times it’s normal size. After arousal it is
usually more easily identified and stimulated. Not all women are
sensitive to stimulation or find it pleasurable. Since indirect
pressure is applied to the bladder, some woman will feel the sensation
to urinate. Breaking this psychological barrier makes it
possible for some women to expel prostatic fluid, as a direct
result of simultaneous stimulation of the G-spot and
muscle contractions surrounding the urethra.
For
a woman seeking to stimulate this area on her own, it would be
advisable to do so in a squatting position. The theory being
that humans having evolved from quadrupeds, a female’s sexual
organs are biologically better designed for entry from the rear
Unlike the currently widely accepted missionary position
(face to face), rear entry has the advantage of exerting more
direct pressure and stimulation onto the G-spot, by the penis.
Secondly there is a greater chance of outward ejaculation (by
the female), since the urethral canal is not compressed in
a way as to inhibit the flow of fluid out of the urethral
opening.
Although
the ability of the female to ejaculate depends on a number of
factors, it must be recognized that it is not for everyone. Just
as many men are not receptive to prostate stimulation, many
women are not sensitive to, or do not necessarily enjoy G-spot
stimulation.
For
those who desire to pursue the experience, the following
points should be considered as essential for success.
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Locating
the G-spot [see illustration)
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The
ability to derive pleasurable sensations from G-spot
massage.
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Overcoming
the fear of urinating, during arousal and G-spot
stimulation. Emptying the bladder immediately prior to
experience, since most women fear that they will
urinate as soon as they relax their PC muscles. This will
allow the woman to relax (or “let go”) and ejaculate.
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Assure
that the urethral tract not unduly pressured; compressing
the urethra may result in the emptying of ejaculate directly
into the bladder (as opposed to the urethral opening).
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