Ejaculation
reflex sensation
No
matter which method is used it is not possible to touch the prostate
directly. The nearest indirect access is through the rectal wall,
which means that there is still a membrane in the way. This is
somewhat akin to the inhibiting sensitivity a glove. Despite this
restriction the lobes of the prostrate are highly sensitive to
pressure. An array of sensations may be produced by pressing, rubbing
or by means of stroking the gland through the rectal wall. The most
profound of these feelings is similar to that sublime sensation which
is normally felt during ejaculation, as the prostate begins pumping
semen.
Anal
sensitivity
Along
with the genital areas, the anus is connected to and interwoven with
millions of delicately sensitive nerve endings, which can yield most
pleasurable sensations.
Hidden
penis
Unknown
to most, over one third of the penis is buried inside the body. It is
the base of the (hidden) penis which may be pressured in a similar
manner as the prostate. The effect of stimulating all three can be
awesome, if done in concert with genital stimulation. Still more
overwhelming than the physiological effects is the psychological
aspect of prostate massage, due to the unaccustomed nature of
penetration of the receiver.
Psychological
high
As
powerful as physiological stimulation might be, it pales when compared
to the immeasurably greater psychological or mental high. The very
notion of the male placing himself into such a vulnerable position,
results in a powerful mental rush, for both receiver as well giver.
The willingness of the naturally controlling male to allow himself to
placed in an unaccustomed submissive role, should be particularly
cherished by the giver.
Face
to face (for greater intimacy)
While
completely naked, the receiver should assume a seated position;
his back reclined and supported by large firm pillows (at about a 45 -
65 degree angle). His knees pulled in the direction of his chest
and somewhat angled outward. The resulting position should be both
comfortable for the receiver, as well as allowing the giver
unobstructed view and unfettered access to the anus and genitals of
the receiver. The giver may sit cross legged, or kneel
in front of the receiver.
As a
way to relax the receiver, the giver may begin by
massaging the receivers lower extremities, particularly the
abdomen. Initially, the receiver may choose to relax by closing
his eyes, but as the massage progresses it is of great importance that
the receiver and giver maintain eye contact.
It
will be up to the giver to decide when the receiver is
sufficiently relaxed and aroused. At this time the giver should
unobtrusively slip on a glove and to begin lubricating the receivers
anus. The lubrication process should be lengthy and ceremonial.
Beginning with circular motions, stroking the anal opening. The
objective is to pleasure and relax the nervous rosebud.
The
giver should "never" poke the anus with the tip of
the finger, but to gently and firmly apply pressure with the pad of
the finger. Continuously add lubrication; there can never be too much
lubrication! When the anus is ready it will allow the finger to enter.
All that is needed is time and patience.
Remarkably,
when the moment comes the giver will notice that the finger
will seem to be drawn into the anus. Once the finger has been allowed
to enter it is best to be still allowing the anal sphincters the
chance to become accustomed to the intrusion. It will not be a good
idea for the giver to move their finger in and out of the anus. There
should only be one reason for the giver to remove the finger,
and this would be to add more lubrication.
The giver
is now ready to seek out the prostate: this can easily
accomplished by crooking the inserted finger upwards, and feeling for
a "roundish" to oblong protrusion about 2 inches inside the
rectum. Applying pressure to the prostate will provide a variety of
sensations, the most desirable of which is the feeling of impending
ejaculation. By applying more or less pressure to the gland, the giver
will be able to control these sensations; even to the point of
inhibiting the receiver from ejaculating. The ability to control
ejaculation through prostate massage, allows for nearly unending
stimulation of the receiver's genitals. The penis may be
massaged by the giver, or by receiver himself, to a
point of near ejaculation. Only to be kept on the brink by varying
pressure on the prostate.
During
the arousal cycle the giver may begin to rhythmically move the
inserted finger partially in and out, so as to stimulate the
rich and super sensitive nerve endings around the anus.
Eye
contact is most desirable at the resolution phase of the experience,
with the receiver and giver gazing into one another's
eyes… various scenarios are now possible:
A.
The giver will allow the receiver to masturbate
himself to achieve ejaculating. All the while the giver will
be verbally encouraging the receiver to the moment of climax.
B.
The giver may masturbate the receiver's penis with one
hand, while massaging the receivers anal opening or prostate
with the other. Both giver and receiver should
communicate intently, so as to allow the greatest pleasure for the receiver.
C.
The receiver may desire for the giver to “milk”
his prostate, without direct stimulation to the penis. To achieve
this the giver will gently stroke each lobe, resulting in a
gentle flow of semen and the emptying of the prostate through
the erect or flaccid penis.
Facing
"away" from the giver (a magnificent view for the giver)
In
this position the receiver will be kneeling, knees apart,
buttocks elevated, while the elbows are resting on a firm surface,
such as a cushioned floor matt. This should be both a stable and
comfortable position for the receiver.
The giver
may kneel or sit spread legged behind the receiver, having easy
access and a perfect view, of the receiver's anus. The giver
will also be in a position to reach between the receivers legs to
allow stimulation of the genitals.
From
this point please follow the same procedure as in the face to face
method.
